There's always a reason behind everything.

Assalamualaikum.

As i woke up today to perform my Subuh prayer,

i noticed that it had been almost 2 weeks after i finished

with my final papers. n next week i'm going to start my practical.

how time flies!

something triggered me this morning. u know, when out of sudden

u remember all those random things. ahah.

well, that something actually changed me on how i treat people.

it happened back then, when i was in form 2. i was immature,

selfish, hot-tempered, childish, emotional (well, i still have that now. sigh).

oh but first let me tell you, this is about siblings :)

i have 4 siblings including me.

2 older brothers n 1 younger sister.

because the gap between me and my younger sister is quite far

which is 6 years, i tend to less care about her.

i always get mad in everything she did, scolded her,

raise my voice, which is yeah.. not proper.

i was only 14, but i always wonder how my friends

could go along with their lil' siblings so well?

i don't even feel guilty when i scolded her.

teruk betul.

tapi Allah itu Maha Adil lagi Maha Mengetahui.

i was involved in a car accident.

abg pi, abg wan n me was in the car while

umi, abah n my lil sis was in another car. the car that

i'm in, had a serious accident that makes the car

totally lost in control. i was at the back of the car

while abg wan my second brother drove the car.

abg pi sat next to abg wan.

after our car stopped from all the

melambung-berpusing-langgar tepi jalan-stuff,

all of us senyap.

maybe we didn't expect this thing happened.

luckily 3 of us didn't injured. thanks to the airbag.

after a while.

abg pi said to abg wan,

"patutnye aku drive.."

abg wan replied,

"eh takpela pi.. aku ok..takde injured ape pun"

abg pi senyap. then he said,

" tak.. mmg patutnye aku bawak.. tak patut bg kau bwk..

aku abg sulung.. aku yg sepatutnya bertangunggjawab pada adik2.

aku yg sepatutnya tanggung kalau umi abah nak marah nanti.

bukan kau.."

then abg wan said,

"takpe pi.. mmg aku nak drive td.. salah aku.. bukan salah kau.."

lastly abg pi said,

"takpe la.. nanti biar aku explain sume kat umi abah..

kau jgn risau k.."

i was at the back, watching them being a very good siblings

towards each other.

i found that, even if our siblings makes a fault,

still, we shoud have our own responsibilities.

it's not about siapa kakak-abang-or adik,

it's about how you take care the family.

it shows how much love you had for them

that you would even trade yourself to make them

just to feel better.

after that, well u get the idea lah kan. i changed my perspective.

not totally lah. but still trying to be a better sister n sibling :)

i always. always believe that,

everything happens for a reason.

any similar stories that makes u and your siblings

relationship even better? let me know then :)

till then, salam jumaat semua!