something to learn.

Assalamualaikum.


dalam hidup ni kita takkan pernah lari dengan perasaan mahu disayangi.
tak kira lah dengan family, kawan2, si dia tercinta mahupun kucing kesayangan.
apabila mereka memberi sesuatu yang kita namakan cinta atau sayang,
hidup kita terasa lebih bermakna. ceria. indah.

i was talking with my primary school friend today.
since she's just got married, i've asked her what's the
most important thing that can last the relationship like her.
with a smile, she said it's how you handle the situation and act professionally
in any problem.
if there's a problem, don't judge. instead ask him to explain first n from there
u can know weather he's telling the truth or not.
n most importantly, trust each other.
if you don't trust, it means you're not serious enough with him.
but don't over trust coz u might not know what will happen in the future.

years of relationship doesn't mean he's yours.
kalau dia mmg tersurat jodoh buat kita, maka ia.
jika dia bukan jodoh kita, teruskan hidup.

for me, jika si dia kini hadir dalam hidup anda,

bercintalah.
prinsip sy mudah dlm bercinta :
trust. loyal. making everyday seems beautiful.
my lil' sis once asked me how long have i been with him.
n i replied with a blushing smile, almost 8 years :)
for her, it's crazy to keep on going with high school sweetheart.
but for me, as long as both sides play the role, u could be in love, everyday.
like seriously.

loving someone is actually a learning process.
it's how we get to know people deeply.
dahulu sy slalu rasa semua org akhirnya adalah sama.
tapi sy silap.
different people have different principles, n that
makes them different in the end.
mungkin kita dan pasangan tidak sama dari banyak segi.
tapi semuanya adalah penyeri dalam hubungan.
u get to know something new, as well as him.
fair enough lah kan? :)

i hear a lot of stories nowadays yg pasangan tak setia,
membosankan, byk skandal, etc.
hmm. it hurts me somehow. walaupun takde sbb. heh.
to me, biarlah. itu kisah mereka.
tak rugi pun kalau kita setia, berusaha utk kekalkan hubungan,
berusaha utk menyerikan lagi bunga2 cinta.
as long as he do the same.
sama2 kita bimbing pasangan masing2 sbb
kelak, kita seharusnya mahukan pasangan yg sekarang
menjadi yg sah buat kita kan?
jadi kalau kita benar2 serius, bersikap terbukalah.
dan sedia mendengar masalah pasangan masing2.
sometimes we have to know how it feels to be in our
spouse problem b4 we start fighting n blaming him.
get to know him.
he'll love u more than u could imagine :')

n ya, terimalah kebaikan dan keburukan pasangan masing2.
if you can't, cau cepat2.
sbb kalau dah terlebih cinta, isu kekurangan tu tadi akan jd masalah.
nak tinggal, dah syg.
makanya, terimalah si dia seadanya. hey, even u're not perfect.
so why u keep on blaming others? :)

this is just a random thought of mine.
n thanks to iffah, my dearest friend for giving me inspiration :)
gambar2 diatas adalah behind the scene utk filem terbaru, yours truly.
dijangka menemui pawagam pada 12.12.2011 ini. ;p

till then korang,
selamat malam!