Thursday, August 11, 2011

something to learn.

Assalamualaikum.


dalam hidup ni kita takkan pernah lari dengan perasaan mahu disayangi.
tak kira lah dengan family, kawan2, si dia tercinta mahupun kucing kesayangan.
apabila mereka memberi sesuatu yang kita namakan cinta atau sayang,
hidup kita terasa lebih bermakna. ceria. indah.


i was talking with my primary school friend today.
since she's just got married, i've asked her what's the
most important thing that can last the relationship like her.
with a smile, she said it's how you handle the situation and act professionally
in any problem.
if there's a problem, don't judge. instead ask him to explain first n from there
u can know weather he's telling the truth or not.
n most importantly, trust each other.
if you don't trust, it means you're not serious enough with him.
but don't over trust coz u might not know what will happen in the future.



years of relationship doesn't mean he's yours.
kalau dia mmg tersurat jodoh buat kita, maka ia.
jika dia bukan jodoh kita, teruskan hidup.
for me, jika si dia kini hadir dalam hidup anda,

bercintalah.
prinsip sy mudah dlm bercinta :
trust. loyal. making everyday seems beautiful.
my lil' sis once asked me how long have i been with him.
n i replied with a blushing smile, almost 8 years :)
for her, it's crazy to keep on going with high school sweetheart.
but for me, as long as both sides play the role, u could be in love, everyday.
like seriously.

loving someone is actually a learning process.
it's how we get to know people deeply.
dahulu sy slalu rasa semua org akhirnya adalah sama.
tapi sy silap.
different people have different principles, n that
makes them different in the end.
mungkin kita dan pasangan tidak sama dari banyak segi.
tapi semuanya adalah penyeri dalam hubungan.
u get to know something new, as well as him.
fair enough lah kan? :)


i hear a lot of stories nowadays yg pasangan tak setia,
membosankan, byk skandal, etc.
hmm. it hurts me somehow. walaupun takde sbb. heh.
to me, biarlah. itu kisah mereka.
tak rugi pun kalau kita setia, berusaha utk kekalkan hubungan,
berusaha utk menyerikan lagi bunga2 cinta.
as long as he do the same.
sama2 kita bimbing pasangan masing2 sbb
kelak, kita seharusnya mahukan pasangan yg sekarang
menjadi yg sah buat kita kan?
jadi kalau kita benar2 serius, bersikap terbukalah.
dan sedia mendengar masalah pasangan masing2.
sometimes we have to know how it feels to be in our
spouse problem b4 we start fighting n blaming him.
get to know him.
he'll love u more than u could imagine :')


n ya, terimalah kebaikan dan keburukan pasangan masing2.
if you can't, cau cepat2.
sbb kalau dah terlebih cinta, isu kekurangan tu tadi akan jd masalah.
nak tinggal, dah syg.
makanya, terimalah si dia seadanya. hey, even u're not perfect.
so why u keep on blaming others? :)

this is just a random thought of mine.
n thanks to iffah, my dearest friend for giving me inspiration :)
gambar2 diatas adalah behind the scene utk filem terbaru, yours truly.
dijangka menemui pawagam pada 12.12.2011 ini. ;p

till then korang,
selamat malam!

52 comments:

  1. heee~chumelnyer korg..suker tgk :)

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  2. a sweet love story from u..
    i'm nisa..salam ukhuwah
    just dropping by to say hi..
    btw nice blog..
    i've already followed your blog.. =)

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  3. indeed, cinta memerlukan kesefahaman between to hearts. if not, it'll not going so well as u said ;) hehe.
    wowwww, those piccas look very smart and u're in the gorgeous red. love to seee!!! ;)

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  4. i love this entry dear . hepi always with your partner :)

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  5. wahh..terharu lah bce entry ni..hehe..
    tq sgt2.. lme la korg kapel ek..moge kekal sampai bile2..:DD

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  6. nice one fatin! kak intan suka ayat ni:

    "years of relationship doesn't mean he's yours.
    kalau dia mmg tersurat jodoh buat kita, maka ia.
    jika dia bukan jodoh kita, teruskan hidup"

    ;)

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  7. semua gambar ni sweet sgt2..including kata2 tu^^

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  8. Totally agree! Kesetiaanpaling keutamaan berbanding tempoh sesuatu perhubungan itu.

    Sweet both of you :)

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  9. cuhmeyl and sooo smart! your words are really inspiring. goodluck to u two. :-)

    8 years huh? whoaa. such a very long time in relationship. nak kawen nanti jemput!! hehe

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  10. this is so inspiring. I'm with someone through my school life for the past three years and ramai cakap lepas habis sekolah jumpa ramai lagi orang and it wont last long. alhamduillah both of us are still together despite the fact we haven't see each other for months. reading this post make me realise high school sweetheart tak semestinye akan end up jadi cinta monyet je.

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  11. jeles dgn fatin suhana :(
    saya tak pernah bercinta. huhu.

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  12. agree... get to know him. be in their shoes n u'll know how they feel. dont judge them :) n yes, years of rltionship doesnt mean he's yours but do the best... nice la kak fatin :)

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  13. the best ever story...!!
    i <3 it.
    =)

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  14. baca ni macam nak nangis. serious. boleh tak kita nak post ni kat blog kita ??

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  15. http://lalalovy.blogspot.com/2011/08/learn-something-from-something-to-learn.html

    dah. thanks tau. =)

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  16. primary school friend iffah? kak iffah najwa ke kak fatin?

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  17. kenapa lah fatin sgt bahagia kan... pnjam hidup..;)

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  18. me n husband maried after 6 years relationship....glad we end it wif akad...hope the same to u dear.....

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  19. saya juga.. bila mendengar macam2 cerita kat luar sana, memang saya jadi takut... tah pape je kan? padahal takut tu tak dapat apa-apa pun.. kadang2 perempuan terlebih risau... nak buat macam mana? takut tak dihargai bila dah lama setia... macam2 fikir.. apapun, didoakan semua nya baik2 sahaja untuk semua.. amin...

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  20. woww. 8 tahun? lamenyee. semoga jodoh kak fatin n bf berpanjangan ye :) dulu pnah jumpe kak fatin time program mpp kat dsg. sumpah kak fatin cun giler! abg afdhal pon panggil kak fatin "kakak cantik". hehe

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  21. 8 tahun?
    Mesti byk dugaan dan cabaran kan :)
    Miera 3 tahun pun tak kekal lama.
    So sweet, Fatin :)

    Be good :)
    Agree much with your words.

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  22. Nak share dlm fb page.boleh kan??

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  23. cinta banyak,tapi cinta sejati hanye satu..just drop here dear

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  24. hehe.. no problemo my dearest fatin..
    people keep saying, sharing is caring..
    whatever i said yesterday was my own experience & it is really important for u to control ur emotion when problems come to u.

    my dear,
    remember this..
    1. Don't promise when u r happy.
    2. Don't decide when u r sad.
    3. Don't reply when u r angry.

    insyaAllah, jumpa fatin kat jinjang pelamin ok.. hehe.. i alwiz pray for ur happiness.
    nice meeting u fatin.
    rindu plak rase. Walaupun dapat jumpa sekejap je, banyak jugak yg kita share kan. hehe..

    by the way, amboihhhh wangi betul shawl tu. hehe

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  25. i agree wit u....ska2...tp u ngn si dia...cnta jarak jauh ke?

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  26. suka....tp u ngn si dia...cnta jarak jauh ke?

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  27. jeles lah dengan awak fatin. hehe. hopefully korang kekal sampai akhir hayat, aminn. hehee :)

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  28. congratz for your 8 years.
    lya x pernah lebih dri 2 thn
    skrg nie tiada hati yg terbuka untuk kita.
    mungkin Allah simpankan yg terbaik utk kita.

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  29. Salam Fatin..

    this entry so inspiring me.
    somehow, i did learn much to create good relationship.
    thanks.

    P/s: ur silent reader. :)

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  30. sorry to interrupt, i dont mean to make fun of u or what, but i think it should be 'Whether' instead of 'weather'.act people still can understood though but the meaning can be totally different if u can trace the mistake.

    'u can know WEATHER he's telling the truth or not.'

    cheers and no hard feeling. life is indeed a learning process.

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  31. i'm oso still (and always forever) in love with my high school sweetheart too ^^

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  32. salam alaik FATIN..:)
    nice entry..;)
    sokong sangat dengan apa yang fatin share tu..
    "kalau dia mmg tersurat jodoh buat kita, maka ia.jika dia bukan jodoh kita, teruskan hidup."
    Apa yang terbaik adalah letakkan harapan pada ALLAH..
    minta pada ALLAH agar satukan kita dengan pasangan tu dengan cara yang baik...
    Doa sentiasa padaNYA agar perasaan sayang pada pasangan kita tak lebih dari sayang kita pada ALLAH...
    sebab hati kita milik ALLAH.. diri kita milikNYA... pasangan kita juga adalah milikNYA..
    kena kuat dan yakin padaNYA selalu..
    Doa byk2,usaha dan tawakkal ya..:)
    ~Allahu yu'tikal a'fiyah insyallah~
    >ARISSA EL-SHAREEF<

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